Trouble signs for couples
All is far in love and war.What can that saying really be saying?Are they implying there may be something similar between the two? I am not sure if that is what they are saying but there are similarities between the two.
The similarities between the two I think are when that love becomes war.There may still be love between the couple but a lot of times they will act as if they are in a war. I have seen this first hand doing couples counseling San Diego.A couple that used to be in love now is a couple in a constant fight. It is my goal to bring peace to the two. And restore that once great relationship.
So what are the signs of trouble?One of the warning signs that is a huge sign is the lack of communicating.Or should it be said lack of any communication.For practically all relationships, knowing how to communicate is essential. Since it is key, if as a couple you start to sense less communication that is a sign.It is a sign or warning of trouble. Whether I am doing couples counseling or as a marriage counselor in San Diego I see it all the time. After all if you can’t communicate, every little thing can become a big problem.Being able to properly communicate in a relationship helps to stop that.
So as a family therapist San Diego one of the biggest things I do is try to teach the couple how to communicate.One of the keys to unlocking the ability to communicate is the ability to listen. People think of communication as talking to each other.But truthfully if you are unable to listen very well, you won’t really be able to understand each other. So by helping the couple listen better their communication improves greatly.
By being able to spot this sign, a couple will be able to better know that trouble may be starting. If a couple is able to recognize this in their relationship early they can avoid problems. From what I have seen probably the best method of solving issues is to not have them in a relationship.But if you don’t notice it early, the way to solve it best is to learn how to effectively communicate.Sounds elementary but it can and will have a positive effect.